Love Has No Boundaries
73Many fall in love over money or how someone looks, but most of the time that kind of love has no heart. When a person falls in love and I mean real love it isn’t based on looks or how wealthy they are, but for the person they are. Now when I say for the person they are I am mean the spirit of that person from the inside.
Cosmetic Love
When a person loves someone for what they have or even for their looks that is cosmetic love for they are in love for their outward appearance and not their inward appearance. This kind of love normally never last very long especially those who are in it just be with a good-looking man or woman. Most of the time they later find out that they are ether abusive, rather it is emotionally or physically and soon start looking for a way out.
However the ones who seek financially rich people can mean that they themselves have a very low esteem of themselves. But when they do manage to hook up with a financially endowed partner, this kind of relationship can carry on for some time. Even when there is no real love there, theses type of people are hooked to the money that comes with that relationship and will not let go that easily. However there are those few people who are flat out Gold diggers and had planed it that way all along. These kinds of people only stay in hopes that their partner will soon kick the bucket and leave them the fortune, but in the end, most of the time people figure them out before it is too late.
The Real Love Birds
There are some real love seeking people out there that care less about money or even looks, I know a few myself as matter of fact I wonder what my wife sees in me? But this story isn’t about me but rather identifying those kinds of people.
A true love seeker will always be very protective of their heart for the most part if they have any experience, but there are those that leap right on in and later get hurt that’s when those invisible walls go up. When they do find someone and then fall in love with that person they don’t really care about looks for the most part but rather the love they receive in return. Later on that love turns into a relationship that they would like to share together for the rest of their lives.
When this happens marriage is not far behind, however moving ahead and not looking back can become a scary task for many not knowing what’s to come. This is where true love shows its true colors. For many things can happen in their lives such as hardships that can put a very hard toll on a relationship, for instance money is the most common of them all and I can bet most of you know about the stress this can put on a family or loved one.
Another hardship is if one becomes disabled, this can resort to where only one of them can work now and still have to care for the disabled partner after work, which can put a strain on him/her on a daily basis. There are some people that it gets to the point that they just can’t take it anymore and wind up leaving there spouse to defend for themselves. For the ones who stick with it, this develops into a stronger bond for both parties because it only strengthens the fact that they need each other even more so then most families.
There are people out there who will never experience real hardships and those who have never known it any other way, but that is what makes us all different. A lot of times the hardship isn’t from the lack of schooling or the lack of not working hard, it just happen that way for many people. So when finding someone who will stick it out rather bad or good, rather living it up or struggling everyday of your life is a partner whom has a heart that has no boundaries.
These kinds of people appreciate everything they have in life and seek no guarantees. Who are grateful for what god has provided, appreciate those that lend a helping hand along the way in most cases this spins off new friendships.
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Here is an example of this kind of love that a lot of us would like to have for it takes allot compassion to maintain a marriage for this long and to never ask for something in return. I wrote this article as an example of this couples love for this story moved me and I felt compelled to pass this along to others so they also could be reminded how real love has no boundaries. So please vote for them because sometimes love starts with just a little gesture.
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You could write a trillion words on this topic and only cover the opening sentence. I think fate can place people together then compromise can keep them there. Ups and downs are inevitable with only three in five making it. Or is it two in five? I certainly feel fortunate to be able say that i still love the 'girl' i married twenty six years ago even though we both 'forgot' to celebrate our silver wedding anniversary, because we are too busy loving and living our life. Cheers mate
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Michelle Callis 22 months ago
You are right - love without boundaries...unconditional love...is truly the key! There is so much that can be said on that topic and you have covered alot here. Thanks for sharing. Because of company lay-offs and the changing front of the family home, marriages across America are certainly experiencing new levels of stress. But no matter what season, there are some definite secrets to success in love and marriage. Been married 21 years myself and looking foward to many more!